Lost and Not found.

I don't know why i blog about lost and found things. I really don't know . But I do
Been over a week and the self imposed Boomerang theory has been proved wrong!!
Nothing came back , this time .

PS0: //Todo
PS0.1: Zillions of todo. Don't know about marriage but wedding is  a big affair.
PS0.2: For a girl even more , chaos i say . No wonder Indian people usually marry once ;)

Khosla Ka Ghosla

Raw and Grey

                                

Constructing  own house (not flat )is probably the biggest milestone  in a typical middle class family of the 90s (?)  after the obvious milestones like -  Bachey , Bachoan ki padhai , Gaddi , Bachoan ka college , Bachoan ki naukri , Bangla, Bachoan ki shaadi. Order being subjective to circumstances ,  cash net inflow and priorities .

Author being  born in  era under  such a social stature and upbringing is happy  to see smile in Mom’s eyes and pride in Dad's  on discovery of  water,  250 feet below 

Pani ki khoj

Though one still  stuggles with This, suggested to build house at  their roots , no matter which metro they choose to dwell , further.

Roots being a touristy place , home stay options can be tried out later

PS0: Mum has been singing : ek bangla bane nyara

PS1: Author hasn’t been part of the micro progress .Feels good today.

PS2: Though I hate  milestoned life !!

How I Met Your Father

 Author is hooked to HIMYM sitcom and going by reputation of forgetfulness , has decided to pen down some relationship gyaan.

Disclaimer1 : Some content of this post is inspired from friends experiences also and some facts are spiced up for high trp .But the fabrication is not rosy bullshit  from cliche rom-coms  , but is stark , truth .

Disclaimer2 : Author will not entertain any kind of gossip or cheesy teasing or "hollow" linkups .Mind it !!

kids, i met your uncles x,y,z......
(hmmm now i am wondering ......ummm , ok  let me stick to to-the-point fundas)

1. Execute on your crushes quick . Always start with friendship and not take the direct leap.But do take the leap before its too late.
2. Never date your best friend , NEVER.Loosing crying shoulders is pathetic.Unless....hmmm, whatever ,you will still mess it up.
3. The Flirts and Casanovas are good to hang around  when u are younger and NOT looking for commitment.
4.  Yes, all Men have "Moves" , some can just melt the toughest of you like butter , you wont even realize  when your hatred turned into adulation and that is when you might  get dumped.
5.  Do not equate "I love uou" to "I will marry you" ,  especially if they have koochi cooed it to you hundred times. If they really mean it they will say it just "once" and will do something about  it.
6. Trust me ,looks has got nothing much to do with Love , it could be the initial trigger , but as long as you have your personality  and hormones intact , chemistry is bound to happen.
7. Do not buy romantic comedies , there is no "happily ever after" . Every person changes with time and  so does every relation.
8. Men love to chase, so let them , the day you give in , the chase is reversed .
9.  Women are meant to be loved and cared . But nothing comes with life time warranty.Drop your expectations !
10. Do not play with anyone's emotions knowingly or unknowingly , coz when it breaks it hurts , bloody it hurts.
11. Time is the biggest healer.Every one can get-over anyone and can move-on , but you gotta stop at some point .
12. Some men are jerks and the worst part is they will never realize this .(Never get seriously involved with the "uncle Barney" kinds , they are mostly interested in your boobs and not what lies underneath them).Unless you are looking for similar unhooked fun.
13. Do not build on false hopes for long , they will just burn your youth years in seconds .
14. Being madly loved wins over loving someone madly . Though true love is mostly unrequited (Its always the quest and not possession which drives you towards it). Successful couples are often friends who are aware of each others unrequited fables.
15. You will have regrets , but believe me nobody waits forever .
16. Do not mess up with your friends girl/guy.
17. Start young , so that  when you really find some one later , you are not fooled in doing so or have the maturity to deal with the win or loss . ( Iss umer mein bhi khavoge dhokey,  dil to bachha hai jee... playing in the back ground)
18. Value the ones who really really loved you , give them a chance .But back off if they turn out to be obsessive /possessive kinds.
19. Believe in institution of marriage , commitment  phobia  will  make you paranoid even towards your soul mate ( btw,  soul-mate is highly overrated ). And if you are able to do so tell me HOW?
20.  In spite of above all , if you managed to get lucky ,then hold on to him/her and never-ever let go .Its rare , so grab with both your hands.

Readers ,  feel free to add to the list . Those who haven't experienced even 3 of  these syndrome , not sure whether to  pity you or envy you to have been way to lucky and untouched .

PS0: Re-posted on demand .
PS1: Oh "the father" btw , is a good boy ;)
PS2: And the count down begins.......  ;)

Where author re-quotes

Life is a box of chocolates book of chapters.

PS: poetry will eventually follow.

From loneliness to lost self

Dedicated to a dozen of friends who are getting married or have recently tied the knot.

Arz kiya hai

Dostana , Yarana bahut hua

Zindagi ab  humsafar dhoonde.

Mein , mera bahut hua

Ab , tu , tera , tujhe dhoonde.

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After 

Yaroan se miley zmana hua

Zindagi ab phoorsat dhoonde.

Ab tu , tera  bahut hua

mann mein , mera , mujhe dhoonde.

-Yours truly, clueless